3 & 5 Compatibility (and vice
versa)
This is an excellent combination, but because the partners are so compatible, they sometimes
enhance each other’s less desirable traits as well.
John is upbeat, expressive, creative and playful. However, John is not always focused and
the results of John’s productivity are not always useful. Mary generates a similar, sometimes
restless energy. Mary, though, is more directed towards social activities, interacting with
other people. Mary’s life style is dynamic and, if the decision is in Mary’s hand alone,
this life style will involve lots of travel. If you happen to share a home, John and Mary,
you will have little trouble creating a living environment and a life style suitable to
both.
You both communicate well. Your verbal abilities make you a popular couple. In fact, one
of the things that could trip you up is the popularity and easy social interacting, since
you both - but Mary in particular - may have a tendency to become jealous of your partner.
You both thrive on playing center stage, you both want to be in the spotlight, and this
may cause an uncomfortable competitive atmosphere.
John, Mary can, at times, say things on the spur of the moment that are hurtful or reveal
an underlying problem. You would do well reading between the lines, because, whatever it
is, Mary probably won’t spell it out. Similarly, John likes to skim over the deeper issues
in life, especially those in the emotional sphere. Mary needs to be aware that, even after
being close to John for many years, much about John will never be revealed. This shows that,
if you are not careful, the two of you could be experiencing deep inner turmoil, and your
partner might not be aware of it.
The three and the five get along very well. John likes the way Mary acts and talks. Mary
has a wonderful time with John’s wacky sense of humor and upbeat nature. It is a good combination
that can last a lifetime. If problems arise and reach the kind of proportions that put this
relationship in jeopardy, it is usually because the partners didn’t listen carefully to
each other. Both the three and the five have a tendency to keep emotional problems on the
back shelf instead of dealing with them. Then, once the turbulence reaches the surface,
it is too late and the end comes swift and final. John and Mary, you have to pay attention
to each other. Watch for subtle signs of discomfort or anger, and deal with it immediately
in an open, direct and compassionately way. That is the key to sharing an inspiring, creative,
lively, happy life.
3 & 6 Compatibility (and vice
versa)
You make up a creative couple, where John has the kind of creativity and sense of humor
everybody loves and Mary the warmth and self-sacrificing love for the friends and family
members that so easily wins hearts over. You are probably a popular couple, with an active
social life and a large circle of friends.
Mary has the innate ability to draw from others the kind of loyalty and devotion that lasts
a lifetime. The number six is often called the motherhood-, or fatherhood, number. Healing
and comforting is second nature to Mary, who will spread it around indiscriminately.
John, the number three is also a very giving and popular number, more playful and creative,
but less grounded and disciplined. Your energy is less directed and more impulsive. You
don’t have a lot of patience dealing with emotional issues. So, you can be a great shoulder
for people to cry on, as long as the crying doesn’t last for more than about two minutes,
probably because your usually optimistic and lighthearted nature tends to expect from others
the same elastic response to difficult times, which is so much part of your make up. Though
invaluable, John, the energy you bring in is sometimes not enough. The six makes Mary all
heart. Mary feels very strongly and very deeply, which can also cause Mary to be more affected
by matters of the heart than you feel sensible.
Surprisingly, however, the most common pitfall when a three and a six are found in this
part of the chart is not the lack of emotional involvement native to the three, but the
possibly excessive emotional bonds experienced by the six. Mary, you have a tendency to
become so involved with the well being of those you love that they may start feeling smothered.
You want to do everything for everybody, and John can become disenchanted with that, since
John needs space and freedom, and does not like to be guided and protected by anyone else.
Mary, it is important that you don’t try to take John under your wings, thereby making
John feel that there is no room to move or air enough to breathe.
3 & 7 Compatibility (and vice
versa)
This combination of numbers in this part of the chart is particularly interesting. John
and Mary, the different natures of the three and seven make for a relationship that either
lasts for about two weeks before going up in flames, or remains exciting and powerful for
a lifetime. If your relationship has existed for quite some time and can be considered stable,
you may well be soul mates for life. If the relationship started recently and has already
experienced considerable ups and downs, you should be prepared to let go. It is also quite
common for this combination to turn from romance into deep friendship immediately after
a romantic fall-out.
John has a restless, energetic, unconventional mind that happily explores the boundaries
of creativity and originality. Like a kaleidoscope, the mind of the three changes colors
and shapes and enchants those around it. Mary has a much more serious, but no less unconventional
way of looking at life. Mary is an untiring seeker of truth and understanding. Mary gets
great satisfaction out of quiet moments of contemplation and soul searching. In fact, Mary
thrives on the clarity and realizations that come from such moments and from moments of
spiritual enlightenment, which are common to those found with the seven in this part of
the chart.
As you can see, you have very different approaches in the way you think. But, on the other
hand, you have in common the fact that you both are unconventional and not afraid to wander
off the beaten path. Although you have different needs and you find your happiness in very
different ways, such ways are not incompatible. John and Mary, it is precisely your uniquely
different intellects that make this relationship lively and interesting. You complement
each other. You give each other something you would not be able to give yourself. John brings
sunshine and an intuitive faith to Mary, while Mary offers John a taste of the beauty found
in exploring the depths of life itself. Like the sun and the moon, you supply light and
comfort. Although on opposite ends of the spectrum in some ways, you bring light and comfort
to each other’s life and, as long as you don’t compete for each other’s space, you can live
in great harmony.
3 & 8 Compatibility (and vice
versa)
John and Mary, the three and the eight affect one in very different ways. So, when these
two numbers appear together in this part of the chart, the couples are compatible in some
areas, incompatible in others. John brings in the creative, somewhat scattered, but yet
inspiring and uplifting energy. Mary is more ambitious, goal-oriented and focused. You are
both energetic and capable of turning dreams into reality, even though with different approaches.
Quite often, this combination is seen between business partners, or long-time friends who
start a business together. In that environment, John would be the initial creative source,
while Mary would be the visionary. Together, you could do very well.
You are also both good communicators. John has the ability to clarify an issue with a sense
of humor and pinpoint precision. Mary takes a more practical approach by simply grabbing
the bull by the horns.
In many ways, John and Mary, you complement each other and are quite compatible, as revealed
in this part of the chart. But, just like in any other number combination, there are areas
where problems may arise.
Mary is ambitious, practical and capable of sustained effort for a long period of time
in order to reach a goal. John also has the energy and drive needed to make things happen,
but John may drop a project when it is no longer interesting or when other projects become
more important. This can be upsetting to Mary, who feels that a commitment, such as a set
goal, should be honored at any rate - - anything less is unacceptable to Mary.
John, on the other hand, will sometimes feel that Mary’s priorities are too much directed
to Mary’s own needs and expectations. Mary can be quite demanding, while John is more easy-going
- - if something doesn’t work out, oh well, let’s try something else. Mary doesn’t accept
that and feels that the whole purpose of setting a goal is to overcome the obstacles one
is bound to encounter.
In the end, the issue comes down to respect. The three and the eight have such different
views as to what is important in life that, unless they learn to respect each other’s needs
and expectations, the relationship will not last long. However, more often than not, the
three and the eight get along quite well.
3 & 9 Compatibility (and vice
versa)
This aspect of the chart, John and Mary, reflects excellent compatibility between the two
of you. The three and the nine can form a strong unity, one that often lasts for a very
long time - if not forever.
They represent archetypes that are almost mythical in their romantic bond. Lots of stories
of endless patience and self-sacrifice could be told about this unity. And what makes this
so surprising is the fact that this is possible even though both numbers are considered
self-centered, even egocentric at times.
John and Mary, you both have powerful imaginations and intense inner lives, and that makes
the two of you creative, albeit in very different ways. John has a unique, somewhat offbeat
originality, and expects life to be full of unexpected events and turns. Mary, in turn,
likes to manipulate the environment until everything is harmonious. Mary has the talent
to combine colors and materials to create beauty in a disciplined manner. John appreciates
the way Mary seems to be able to control events and surroundings, while Mary envies the
easy manner in which John accepts, and takes advantage of, whatever life has to offer. This
brings balance to your relationship.
John, your three in this part of the chart is often compared to the sun: you are warming
and comforting to everyone, inspiring and uplifting to all. Mary, the number nine you carry
is the most idealistic and self-sacrificing number. Like the three, it offers its love freely
and generously.
Although they are both loving, generous and worldly numbers, they can never forget for
a moment that they are at the center of whatever they dispense.
So, they can sometimes conflict, in particular when both are vying for the same limelight.
In such circumstances, they are like politicians in an election run-off. Even if, privately,
they respect and like each other, they will try to take away the attention and spotlight
from their partners. They can become very competitive, in which case, just like politicians,
they will do anything to win, even start throwing dirt at each other if they feel justified.
But that is pretty much the only area where the three and the nine combination may encounter
problems. This is, therefore, where you, John and Mary, will have to be careful. Don’t become
competitive. Don’t feel you have to put down your partner in order to elevate yourself.
Instead, if you find that in social situations you compete with each other, take an honest
look at yourself and acknowledge it. In essence, this number combination shows great compatibility
in this aspect of the chart. Avoid competition and instead invest in building the caring,
romantic, life-long unity that comes so natural to you.
4 & 4 Compatibility (and vice
versa)
John and Mary, you both have a four in this part of the chart, indicating a relationship
that is either excellent or extremely stressful. There is not much room in the middle.
Your lifestyle requirements are probably very similar. You both like a certain amount of
predictability and routine in your lives. That does not mean you don't like to be surprised
every once in a while, but you like your daily routines to be firmly established and, preferably,
not interrupted.
The success of your relationship relies largely on how compatible your daily routines are.
The details are important because both of you tend to get quickly irritated when your carefully
established daily routines are disturbed. It is important that you respect each other’s
needs and habits. Even if other numbers in your charts point to a certain amount of flexibility
and adaptability, you both have a tendency to, at least in some areas of your life, create
an environment that is finely tuned and designed to accommodate your daily physical, mental
and spiritual needs.
Even aside from your compatibility, you should arrange for yourself a secure, well-organized
and predictable lifestyle. You both need a solid foundation to be able to face your daily
challenges and opportunities. Unless your daily routines are compatible, it will be impossible
for you to sustain this relationship without making some adjustments. Don't attempt to sacrifice
part or all of your needs and desires to accommodate your partner. It will work only for
the short term. Arrange a more separate routine, instead. There is nothing wrong with two
partners living a small part of their daily life without much interaction. It is better
than trying to adjust to each other, thereby creating small irritations and minor annoyances
that, over time, turn into growing sources of anger.
John and Mary, you are both reliable, dependable people. You honor your promises, which
is a powerful ally in your relationship, since it is important for Mary to be able to rely
on John, and vice versa.
However, if taken too far, your grounded, practical nature can also create a somewhat rigid
lifestyle that will most likely lead to frustration and gradual alienation from friends
and family members. Lacking tolerance and open-minded acceptance of other people's lifestyles
can put a stranglehold on your social life and, indirectly, a strain on your relationship.
Therefore, as you may have realized by now, the keywords to your success and to a pleasant
relationship are tolerance and flexibility.
4 & 5 Compatibility (and vice
versa)
John and Mary, you make up a challenging combination. John likes routine and predictability,
while Mary prefers change and the unexpected. The numbers four and five stand for each other's
polar opposites in many ways. And, interestingly, this is often where the initial attraction
lies. John is drawn to Mary’s daring, adventurous, dynamic and energetic life. On the other
hand, Mary admires the control and discipline John seems to have.
Quite often, this combination makes for a dynamic relationship comparable to a roller coaster
ride. So, it is not difficult to conclude that this combination can only survive if your
mutual love is strong enough to give each other room to live the life style of your respective
choices. There is nothing gained by trying to change your partner. Your needs are simply
too far apart.
John will have to accept the fact that Mary is not predictable and, therefore, Mary will
never be happy living a too-structured life where everything can be forecast. Mary should
make peace with John’s need for a more organized and controlled environment.
Very different attitudes can also be noticed in other areas. Mary is sensual and feels
totally comfortable with other people. Mary is more social and, probably, has a wild streak.
John can be social when the occasion calls for it, but John will always keep a certain amount
of distance. When choosing company, John is more discriminate and tends to hold on to protocol
longer. Although as a rule more conventional and careful, John can, when the occasion is
just right, reveal an extrovert, even outrageous, side.
When it comes to opinions, John and Mary, you will find yourself on opposite sides more
often than not. John may be Republican while Mary votes Democrat. John needs a somewhat
structured spiritual connection. Mary’s spiritual world is very imaginative and more changeable.
John may be much more willing to accept rules and regulations that Mary will try to break
with every opportunity.
Of course, these are just examples provided to give you a picture of what this combination
may bring about, and not to be taken too literally.
Interestingly, this kind of relationship can be very powerful and long lasting. The key
to achieve that is not to take yourself and your concepts too seriously - something John
in particular may have to work on - and maintain your sense of humor. If you can do that,
you will be able to enjoy each other’s company instead of getting irritated by the differences
you encounter.
So, keep in mind that opinions are just opinions, with relative values. On the other hand,
a sense of right and wrong, a moral foundation, should not be relative. Sometimes, we find
ourselves confused, attaching the same importance to our opinions and moral convictions,
and when that happens, it is no longer possible to enjoy or build on the differences.
John and Mary, this is where the danger lies in your four and five combination. Once the
differences become so important you can no longer appreciate your partner, the end of the
relationship is unavoidable. Therefore, go ahead and work on developing these two key qualities
- tolerance and open-mindedness - so that you can build a happy and healthy relationship
where Mary’s adventurous spirit and energy and John’s control and discipline will stand
side by side.
4 & 6 Compatibility (and vice
versa)
It is not all that common for these two numbers to “fall in love.” Although these numbers
carry some common traits - the two of them are practical, grounded, and highly responsible
- they are rarely interested in each other. The four and the six are both family-oriented
numbers, with a strong sense of community and loyalty to others, but they tend to compete
where you might expect them to support each other. This is only one aspect of your charts,
but, quite possibly, the hardest to overcome at the onset of the relationship. However,
if support prevails over competition and you do become involved in a romantic relationship,
it will usually be a strong, comfortable alliance right from the very beginning, an alliance
that will, more often than not, last for a long time. It will be the kind of relationship
others recognize and view as indestructible. It is understood that “John and Mary are always
together”, you make the “perfect couple” - those are statements people around you wouldn’t
even consider questioning.
This contradiction is explained by the fact that you have a lot in common in some ways
but, at the same time, you have some major differences to overcome.
As we mentioned, John and Mary, the two of you are responsible and family oriented. Your
priorities have to do with the home, children, friends, stability and security. You are
both very loyal and protective of each other and of those you care about. It is in the underlying
energy and in the way you express it that you are very different. While John relies on structure,
discipline, and control to protect, love and care for others, Mary relies on love, sacrifice
and forgiveness. John is much less flexible and may, at times, feel that Mary is too soft
and forgiving. You make up a relationship typically characterized as the disciplinary father
and the soft mother, or vice versa.
For those around you, the impression is that John is harder and less loving, while Mary
is pure love and gentleness. This is not an accurate perception, though. John’s love is
no less strong than Mary’s - it is just not as openly expressed. When push comes to shove,
John will fight and sacrifice just about anything to protect Mary, the children, or anyone
else who is part of John’s life.
A certain danger exists when some of these attributes become too strong. John’s need for
discipline and structure may, at some point, become too much for Mary, suffocating and limiting
Mary’s ability to express love easily and without fear. Another possibility would be Mary
becoming a bit of a doormat everyone takes advantage of, which might lead John to lose respect
for Mary.
John and Mary, you can, together, balance these opposites and live a strong, lifelong relationship
if you just remember that, deep inside, you value the same things.
4 & 7 Compatibility (and vice
versa)
John and Mary, your combination is almost made in heaven. The “almost” can’t be left out
because there are some sharp angles to be rounded off. This relationship is founded more
on intellectual and spiritual levels than on the sensual, physical plane. John is practical
and grounded, goal-oriented - John is a doer. John can take ideas, quickly eliminate what
won’t work or is unrealistic, and then make the realistic ideas materialize. John is of
the earth. Mary, on the other hand, is full of ideas and spiritual search, philosophical
and a bit of a dreamer. So, earth and heaven make up this combination, and, just like earth
and heaven, you can’t exist without each other. Although this is only one aspect of the
chart, its influence will help you overcome many of the obstacles and challenges inherit
in every relationship.
This combination is often found among relationships that started at a very early age -
something that can be explained by the fact that both numbers are drawn to each other because
what they have to offer is exactly what they need from each other. John experiences Mary’s
more abstract and philosophical outlook on life as offering freedom and space for John’s
solid, dependable, but somewhat too structured, restricting views. At the same time, John
offers Mary a stable, secure port in an internal universe that is often chaotic and highly
unstable. As a number seven, Mary knows the dangers that lurk in the dark corners of the
subconscious when the mind wonders too far into the realms of dreams and abstract fears.
While John offers a safe haven to Mary, helping Mary find peace and comfort, Mary, in return,
brings freedom to John’s spiritual and mental experiences. Supported by this mutual complementation,
this four and seven combination can bring about childhood romances that will last for a
lifetime.
The sharp angles I mentioned earlier are found on the more mundane, physical plane. This
is where you both may have to compromise if you want your relationship to develop. While
John requires order and respectability, Mary is more comfortable with a bit of chaos, in
which Mary can pose as an observer, an unconventional observer, not per se seeking the approval
of others.
If you are successful in compromising on the material plane, your relationship will be
very satisfying and you will get as close to the proverbial “soul mates” as any two people
can get.
4 & 8 Compatibility (and vice
versa)
This an excellent combination of numbers, not only in romance, but also in business. The
four and the eight are like the gears in an engine. They connect perfectly and increase
each other’s torque. By joining their forces, they triple or quadruple their output. This
is considered the best possible blending of archetypes for a business.
John delivers the persistence, determination, dependability, and methodical approach required
to reaching any set goal, while Mary, the visionary, brings in the conviction that no dream
is unattainable.
Fortunately, a similar synergy exists in romance as well. Although the four and the eight
are different in many ways, they respect each other and recognize each other’s value. Together,
they are able to create a wonderful environment of trust, love and deep spiritual bonding.
John and Mary, although this aspect of your charts reveals an almost perfect combination,
dangers do exist, like in any other number combination. Mary will eventually need to try
something that John will perceive as outrageous and doomed to fail. Mary’s stubborn determination
and at times authoritarian approach may very well become a major irritant in John’s life.
John, whenever that happens, the best approach is to simply back off. Communicate your ideas,
but don’t ever try too hard to persuade Mary to give up a plan or a goal Mary believes in.
By the same token, Mary will, at times, feel that John is a stick in the mud who doesn’t
dare to step off the beaten path. In such situations, Mary would do well to remember that
such behavior does not mean a lack of courage on John’s part, but simply that John will
not waste time or take risks for something John doesn’t believe in. In any of the situations
just described, feelings of frustration may overshadow the love and respect that is the
foundation of this relationship, leading to devastating results. Although rare, it is not
unheard of for this combination to survive several major breakdown-reconciliation experiences,
even divorce and re-marriage. The way to avoid pushing it too far is through compromise.
Compromise is the key word to safeguard this excellent number combination. Sometimes, John,
even when you know a project is doomed to fail, it may still be worthwhile to pursue it.
As for you, Mary, your goals or ideas may be valid, yet, as you typically become more enthusiastic
and motivated when John - or anyone else for that matter - says it is impossible, you might
want to consider whether pursuing it is the smart thing to do.
4 & 9 Compatibility (and vice
versa)
John and Mary, this part of the chart reveals some important differences you will have
to learn to accept if you want this relationship to last. There is very little where the
four and the nine see eye to eye. The problem is not so much that the four and the nine
are not compatible, but that they simply don’t connect.
As always, you have to keep in mind that this is only one aspect of the chart, but even
with that perspective, this is not a promising combination.
Have you ever met someone you had an immediate dislike for, or, perhaps, not so much a
dislike, but an inability to make some kind of connection - a level where you could relate?
No two numbers reflect that kind of unexplainable negative vibration as clearly as the four
and the nine. The fact that you have a relationship is proof that other numbers in your
chart are compatible to such an extent that they overcome this particular “alien” combination.
John and Mary, the success of your relationship lies on a large part on your willingness
to allow each other a lot of freedom. Think of this relationship more as two strangers who
love each other, than two like souls who found each other and fell in love. There is nothing
to be gained by attempting to learn even the deepest secrets and inner experiences of your
partner. In this relationship, the motto is: the less the better. The less you try to understand
your partner, the more you will be able to let love weld your hearts while keeping your
minds free.
John, you will need to allow Mary a life devoted to people or projects you could never
get excited about. Mary will have to compromise as well. Idealistic as Mary is, Mary can
be self-righteous and annoyingly opinionated. If you try to change your partner, or persist
in demanding that your partner sees things from your perspective, the only result will be
the opposite of what you tried to accomplish: more distance, more confusion, more alienation.
The answer lies on recognizing the fact that you walk on parallel paths. So, in order to
preserve your relationship, you must build a life style that will guarantee that your ways
will never cross, that there will always be some distance between you. I feel, however,
that it is necessary to stress that this is only one aspect of the chart. There is much
more involved in your relationship and, perhaps, the complete lack of connection between
the four and the nine will never become much of an issue. But if it does, remember that
the distance between these numbers is the only thing that makes it possible for them to
live in harmony. Try to overcome the distance and harmony no longer exists.
5 & 5 Compatibility (and vice
versa)
John and Mary, in this particular part of the chart, you both have a five, a number full
of contradictions, no matter where it is found. For example, the five is sensual and freedom
loving. It doesn’t like to be tied down in any way. The five carries a tendency for indulgence,
often expressed in sexual promiscuity, overeating, or drug or alcohol abuse. Paradoxically,
the five is also loyal and less likely to cheat than any other number. The five will avoid
commitment as much as possible, but once committed it takes it very seriously.
Probably, you both recognize this within yourself and each other. You both take your commitment
very seriously and you are both willing to accept a lot from each other. With your tolerant,
easy going and flexible personality, you know how to adapt to each other, allowing your
partner more freedom than most couples. This mutual understanding is just one of the many
strong supports in this combination that can thus weather many storms.
However, there is a dangerous side to this relationship, as there is to any other.
John and Mary, the danger does not come from outside, but from inside. You are both adventurous
people who require change and variety in your lives. You don’t like routine and often make
a change. Even major changes. Such as switching career or moving to another town. Even when
there is really no rational need for this change.
It is this urge for freedom and adventure that can also be the source of trouble. This
tendency towards trying new things, experimenting with the boundaries of life, is sometimes
expressed in a somewhat wild life style that often includes drugs or other vices.
In most partnerships, if one partner has a “wild streak” the other may be able to put on
the brakes. In your particular case, you may find yourself in a situation where both of
you have ventured into the danger zone and there may be no one to put on the brakes.
John and Mary, the key to a successful relationship for you is not hard to grasp - just
be yourself. You have much in common and all the ingredients are there for a long and happy
and probably fun-filled relationship. However, in order to prevent a slow slide into a lifestyle
that could eventually be quite difficult to get out of, you must be absolute honest and
use a healthy dose of self-criticism. When you see yourself - or your partner - sliding
towards some form of abuse, engaging in a search for the pleasures of the flesh, do not
hesitate to act promptly and honestly. Be careful not to let your need for freedom and adventure
push you in the wrong direction. More than in any other number combination, discipline and
moral values are required.
5 & 6 Compatibility (and vice
versa)
John, you are attracted to Mary’s strength and stability. Mary is the grounded force, offering
almost unconditional love and protection. You feel safe and secure in Mary’s love.
Mary thrives on giving love, comfort and protection. In short, Mary is John’s haven.
Mary, you are attracted to John because you recognize in John a free spirit. John has courage
and curiosity and brings excitement and growth to the relationship. The five and the six
complement each other very well.
It is interesting to note that this kind of partnership is somewhat rare due to some initial
distrust the six and the five have to overcome when they first meet. The five and the six
archetypes have very little in common and usually don’t reach out to bridge the gap. As
a consequence, although not impossible, love at first sight is rarely found in this number
combination.
When a five and six are drawn to each other, it is usually very physical and sensual. Once
you connect, John and Mary, the attraction quickly grows powerful, overshadowing just about
everything else in your lives. This physical attraction is a strong foundation and while
many couples, after a period time, often lose interest in the physical aspect - at least
to some degree - in your particular case the physical attraction will last a long time and
remain powerful. This physical attraction is particularly important to John, who is by nature
a sensual person.
Once the initial distrust is overcome, Mary realizes that there is much more substance
to John than John initially revealed. Mary found out that John, in spite of a reluctance
to commit, is extremely loyal and trustworthy. The popular notion that people who change
so easily and adapt to new circumstances quickly may not be so strong in their commitment
is proven wrong when applied to the five. In fact, John is less likely to cheat than most
people. On the other hand, Mary can become a source of frustration and jealousy for John
because Mary gives love freely and generously. In order to keep harmony, John needs to understand
that this is simply Mary’s nature. Mary is quick with hugs and shows of care and love to
other people, but this should not be a reason for John not to trust Mary, or to be jealous.
Mary simply has a lot of love to give. Teaching, healing, and counseling - even if they
are not part of Mary’s career - are major ingredients in the makeup of a six, and Mary needs
avenues to express them.
It is important that John keeps that in mind and does not let misplaced jealousy come between
them.
The most difficult challenge Mary may have to overcome is to accept the fact that John
is certainly a social animal. For John to be happy, John must live a dynamic life; full
of impulsive decisions, changes, social activities and travel. With some exaggeration, you
might say that Mary loves the home while John loves the pub. Keeping that in mind, you will
both need to offer your partner a lifestyle that is in harmony with what you yourself want.
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